Burdens are for shoulders strong enough to carry them.
Omnia transibunt.
Et id transibit quoque.
Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength.
Her burdens were her own and burdens were for shoulders strong enough to bear them.
No man who is occupied in doing a very difficult thing, and doing it very well, ever loses his self-respect.
Things go up and down. If you can survive the down, it will come back.