Have you considered the best ruler might be someone who doesn't want to rule?
I don't think a cock is a true qualification.
— We're discussing treason.
— Don't pretend you haven't thought about it.
— Of course I've thought about it. Thoughts aren't treason.
— How many others know?
— Including us? Eight.
— Well, then it's not a secret anymore. It's information. If a handful of people know now, hundreds will know soon.
— You're not like your sister. You're not. You're better than she is. You're a good man and you can't save her. You don't need to die with her. Stay here. Stay with me. Please. Stay.
— You think I'm a good man? I pushed a boy out a tower window, crippled him for life for Cersei. I strangled my cousin with my own hands just to get back to Cersei. I would have murdered every man, woman and child in Riverrun for Cersei. She's hateful. And so am I.
You can say nothing. To anyone, ever. Never tell them who you really are. Swear your brother and Samwell Tarly to secrecy, and tell no one else. Or it will take on a life of its own
and you won't be able to control it or what it does to people. No matter how many times you bend the knee, no matter what you swear.