But bone we decide to change who we are, for someone we love... we can surprise even ourselves with who we've become.
But different doesn't always mean bad. Just means different.
Even the smallest person can change the course of the future.
But here's the truth: sometimes, the more things change, the more they stay the same.
And, yes, change is scary, but it's also inevitable. It's up to you to make the best of it.
When you're ready to let go, To be un-single and un-miserable, you will.
I guess Lieutenant Dan figured there's some things you just can't change. He didn't want to be called crippled, just like I didn't want to be called stupid.
You just have to remember that even if things are changing all around you, deep down, you're still the same person.
Then I looked around in this place, at the chaos it's endured the way it's been adapted, burned, pillaged then found a way to build itself back up again, and I was reassured. Maybe my life hasn't been so chaotic. It's just the world that is and the only real trap is getting attached to any of it. Ruin is a gift. Ruin is the road to transformation.