Because not having someone? Well, that's the worst curse imaginable.
No matter what I do... no matter how hard I try... the ones I love will always be the ones who pay.
A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.
Each one of us here today will at one time in our lives look upon a loved one who is in need and ask the same question: We are willing help, Lord, but what, if anything, is needed? For it is true, we can seldom help those closest to us. Either we don't know what part of ourselves to give or, more often than not, the part we have to give is not wanted. And so it those we live with and should know who elude us.