The problem isn't the kids. It's not even what they can achieve. The problem is what you expect them to achieve. You are setting the bar here. Why? Set it up here! They can make it.
Perception was reality, at least half the time.
I learnt early: those who are quickest to tally your value often do it on your spots alone.
Just stick to the official statement, and soon, this will all be behind you.
Many of our customs seem strange to you. The same is true of yours.